Lately, I’ve been really questioning my effectiveness in dealing with my problems.
I’ve been continuing to do a great deal of self-evaluation ever since I’ve been back from my trip to Australia and I’m realizing that I’m, slowly but surely, returning to my normal state of reaction (in the form of panic) towards certain situations – specifically stressful situations
My prime method of problem-solving has typically been to remove myself from the harmful situation.
Easy enough, right? It’s a common solution that almost everyone uses.
If you’ve ever heard of the term “Fight or Flight”, then you’d know that we, as humans, share this common response mechanism with all other animal species.
In a perceived “dangerous” situation, we must protect our own safety and either stay and tough it out or leave and avoid the bumps and bruises.
I agree with the saying, “What doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger?” but how much do we risk at the cost of causing ourselves pain and heartache?
I don’t want to call myself a wimp, but I’ve been leaning more towards the option of flight when it comes to my more recent problems.
I’ve dealt with a significant amount of obstacles this year which made me question my abilities to tolerate stressful situations.
I had to fly 20 hours from my home just to get away from the things that were causing me stress. Yes, it was a much-needed and uplifting trip, but to my disappointment, it’s now over and I’m right back to where I started and have to deal with the same exact problems that I left behind.
How do you decide what is worth fighting for or fleeing from? For example, do you fight for the one you love or do you let them go? Do you continue to work at a job that pays well, but you’re not passionate about?
Where is the threshold in which we need to remove ourselves from a given situation? How do we choose?
I suppose that’s up to the individual. After all, the decisions we make shape who we are.
“Sometimes you make choices in life and sometimes choices make you.” – If I stay